Political Science

Rocket Science too can be understood easy but the political science is way far from my understanding! The subject is much deviated from the process and is more focused on the people who do the politics. Any TV show or movie grab the audience for its drama quotient and so does the drama in politics. It's purposefully made difficult to be understood by the people, leaving us to better ignore it than to fight with the knowledge of the same. The majority of the politics are reached to the common man through the media and the media itself is politicised and dramatised. The colorful gossips and rumor, value more than the facts behind the political event

Reservation!

Yes, it is needed but it has to be evolving and changes had to be applied to revise the criteria. How long is one going to be backward or prefer to be backward just because he/she is getting benefits out of it? For example, if one in a family is provided a reservation, then it should be ensured that the family that he/she belongs to is pulled up by the benefit given to him/her. Regular follow-up is required to analyze the reservation benefits utilized. Just because a policy is made it doesn't mean it has to be followed forever. Always there is an upgrade. Some things may be applicable into the society after a time period. It has to be understood. When there was a discrimination based on castes, their living style, their day-to-day provisions, the reservation was a 'must have' revolution. Agree that without this revolution this difference would have been high and would have been a regular fight for them. As times are changing and the betterment is being seen and enjoyed now, revision to some extent is required. Without a revision or change or upgrade any good notion will be unappreciable.

This appears to be pushing every other people to the backward and then come up! Should we be in the group where we prefer to be backward so that we get the benefits out of it? Financial, Lifestyle status - should be made the preference. People are being pulled up and are being developed! These status updates have to be registered and considered for further reservations. Generations have to be taken into account and an account tally has to be arrived at! What if they use the reservation not upto its mark and just ignore its original value? Why not keep a restriction to the count of reservation applied to a family? Once a backward family is given a chance to be pulled out of the backward treatment, what if they still don't see or use it, to its real or valued outcome?

And is this how we achieve equality be it case or life structure? And we have to bring back equality only by killing the knowledge in the capables, just as a punishment to their ancestors?! We always have a soft corner for the underprivileged and weaker ones just like Mothers! Focusing on the weaker ones will be good so that we can bring all the stronger ones down to become weak as well!!! So things are easy for the weaker ones again!

As a mother aren't we supposed to encourage them to come up on their own with little support? But if we give all the support that they would ask for forever, are we not pushing them to handicap? As a mother is that what we would want to do?

Connecting People

Social networking! It is just a boon for me! I have been a person who had been living amidst crowd and groups of people, almost all my childhood and teenage days! I had loved it then and even now they are the best memories of my life! But that wouldn't make me say that I still enjoy them now and I miss them badly! I think I have grown up with a change and away from that phase! Now loving my phase more with private moments! And yes I do enjoy those special moments in groups now and then but haven't been able to appreciate that as much as my private moments! My family is where I belong now and my comfort level what I get here isn't something that I would miss for anything else! I like to make the most out of these private living and I still haven't gotten enough of it! And that's why I run back home to my little nest, after a fast paced day's work! And yes I do enjoy the talking with others outside my comfort level and I enjoy it the most when I do it on my own terms! That's where the social networking comes handy to me! I can choose the conversation there and I can choose the person with whom I want to talk and I can choose to get in or stay away as and when something interests or disinterests me!

Gender - Keep just one!!!

We are in a land where few men are unable to be controlled and so women are expected to be in control! Precautions to be taken when women dress up, go to places, stay back late night at work, travels in the night! Asking women to do things as a workaround so that the root cause need not be solved! Because there is no resolution to it! Few men will be like that and will be let to stay like that, while women bring in all changes into the society! Ok then come on women we will do it! Let them accept the fact that they are incapable of bringing in changes in those few men and is dependent upon the women to kickstart the revolution by themselves!
Now where should we start? Ok let us focus on the listed items!

1. Dress change - We will decide upon a uniform for all the women! Let them shut down all the designer shops and bring in a common design which is very safe and secure for the men to control himself! No color change or pattern change! Every woman living on the land will get the same pattern and color! Any change might again bring a problem for men and let's not do that to them! Let us have some pity on them! Yes, girls wearing skirts and pretty outfits are very attracting! And they call for few men to conquer this beauty by any means! After all, all beauties of nature are meant to be spoilt! Healthy grown up trees mean they call for chopping them off, so better don't plant them at all in the first place! Its because we plant them and they grow to be tempting, that few chop them off! Prevention is better than sure so let us ban people from growing trees than ban people from chopping off the trees!

2. Women and Night - Nights are meant for robbers and rapists to roam around freely on the roads! So women should not intrude them in their business! So if women don't want to get raped, then it is your responsibility to stay away from the roads during the nights! Hold on! Some men don't mind about the day or night! What to do about that? Ok better solution is here! Women, don't go anywhere outside during the day time too! Ok done! Again there is a problem, few men are torture within the four walls too! They never care about age or relationship! Just animal flesh is what in them and their blood needs something to feed on anytime! So females, in any form should not go out in the nights!

Being a girl is their fault and let's not be it!!! Blame the creator?!!
What a poor thing the world is going to be giving up all the women to the museum!!! Is our men so angry that they are not being obeyed and want to throw around their weights everywhere especially on women! They have the male ego suffered and not secure enough to show it someway! And they have to prove that men are superior sex by proving it sexually??!!

Humanity!

Rape crisis (Reference to Delhi Rape news on Dec 18, 2012)!
Does this call for a doubt on how humanity is being dealt among the people??!! Be it Delhi or India or any other parts of the world! Are we still lacking in our civilization and failed to learn how to treat fellow human, be it woman or man? The reasons for such things can be thousands but do they justify any of such act? It's not just this incident, recently we have been seeing so many news about child sexual abuse, as well!

*A 5 year old been sexually abused by a cleaner in the school campus! And the kid is in mental trauma and undergoing pyschiatric treatment! And the accused is a father of two kids!*

Are we going insane? There is no fear for crimes! There is no sense of humanity leave alone morality! I'm just in emotional imbalance and not sure what to think and what not to think!

Prevention is better than cure! Should we follow that principle here to apply it on ourselves to prevent this from happening to us meaning to say Should we become the overprotective parents and keep our kids to ourselves to save them from such crisis??!! Should we deprive them of the freedom to explore the world that we enjoyed as our birthright??!!

Or Should we take it the other way to charge against the crimes by preventing them from happening to anyone across! To instill the fear at least something which works where morality don't work! Bring in capital punishment like Bobbitise, Chemical/Physical Castration, Life/Death sentence! Bring in strict Police Patrol to monitor the city!

My little bundle of joy!

I would not say I got you after lot of prayers and penance, but you sure are a precious gift to me, which wasn't easily available to me! I still remember those sleepless nights even before you were born, spent in thinking your well being and good health!

And I must say you sure are an angel, giving me less or no trouble during your birth! No gain without pain but I didn't see any pain in my gain! You are such a wonder in every single way!

All those troubled thoughts lost in the air on seeing those beautiful blinking eyes staring at me. Nothing can be sweeter than your cry! Everything about you was beautiful and pretty to me! I know this one person who is never sensitive or sentimental or too loud in expressing his feelings but he was all in emotions in his own way! I adore you for bringing this side of him out in the light for me!

Your presence made everything complete in my life which I thought was always complete! You opened a new meaning to life in your own way by just being present in it with us!

As you grew up, I found you very reasonable in your demands and well behaved in every way! I was proud and am proud and will always proud of you in whatever you do or become or not become!

You have given a new perspective to life! I have never been tired or bored of life's simple things! But in your presence every simpler thing gave a new meaning to my life!

I was never worried about death! My motto of life had been to live the day without regrets for tomorrow! When you became a part of my life, I couldn't have the freedom of let go off things just like that! You are my responsibility and I want to be accounted for every moment of your life that shapes you up! Every day I have something to say to you and I want you to be prepared for every phase of your life!!! I sure would want you to make your own mistakes but want to be there to offer my shoulder when you are tired of them! I can never be ready to go away till I know that you are ready to take off on your own!

Travel & Me!

It is an experience by itself! I can never repeat the same experience again even if I travel to the same place with the same people or just on my own! Either I will be a new me or with some changes or the place will be different from perspectives! I can't expect something out of the travel instead I would learn to experience everything as it comes to me! Keeping myself open to anything makes the travel lot more interesting. For example instead of planning a tight schedule, leaving it to go with the flow will bring lot more interesting things to my travel I can never be tired of learning anything new- be it the transport or the food or the people or the nature! The same place travelled twice, gives a whole different learning. And I prefer to be be prepared for anything in the travel - be it a flat tyre or a tiresome walk or a delayed schedule or a deviation enroute! Anything that appears to be bad on the outside will make the trip lot more interesting than I have ever thought it would be. I just pack one thing with me always, during the travel - An open mind! That will come handy for anything needed in the tour that is to be unfolded in front of me! The learning or the experience - It can be anything - The people, the nature or the Me! I have to just be there to witness it and focus on it

Water & Me!

What a lovely scene that I see now! Water, water and only water around me! I'm sitting inside the house boat which is moving slowly and steadily on a big body of water - the lake in Kollam! While hubby dear and baby angel are taking a quick nap, I'm seeing myself sitting relaxed watching things around me! There's something with this water! It always make me calm and thoughtful! It brings in peace into my mind and communicates nothing but everything that one needs when he/she is alone! I'm not lonely but alone on my own just wondering what a beautiful life I have! And everything that I have around me makes it more beautiful! Now the water lake and the boat I'm in! Water in its any form is lovely and close to my heart! Be it lakes, the river, the ocean, the waterfalls and the rains! They are just beautiful in their own way just like the way my life is right now!

Right now what I see absolutely stunning in front of me! Wide open with sky as the limit and thick blue water only to be filled in with more water by a drizzle, surrounded by greenery here and there! What a lovely work by nature! One is left with option of being an admirer and nothing else! The power of nature is so wonderful that no words could explain them so very well! Then what am I trying to do here! No, not explaining the nature but trying to explain my experience with mother nature!

What a lovely life I live and a lovely world that I live in! Thank you God, the mother of nature, for everything that you have given me! My family and my this peaceful life amidst the beautiful nature! What else can one ask for! I am only mesmerized!

On the road!

The Roads! What a challenge everyday!

Din't realize the fact that I have been having a hobby unknowing to myself - Driving! I am thrown at this hobby given the conditions of roads and traffic! Yes Driving is an art and I'm mastering it in everyway. I don't complaint though but sometimes it really hurts when my car is taking all the toll of the bad roads! And there taking unexpected U-turns due to road blocks on a daily route! What a mess the roads become in one simple lovely rain, making the rain as the villain! There is a funny saying "In India we drive on the left of the road; In Bangalore we drive on what is left on the road!" So true!!!

What and how does it matter to own an expensive, featured, luxurious car, when all you are left to do is, is to watch the roads!!! It surprises me to know that we still look for such options in the car while we know the reality of such things not going to work the moment the car is out of the showroom!

And I must say it isn't a pleasant experience to be on the road be it driving or walking or cycling or biking, when all you can see is messy surroundings and bad sights around! We are forced to take solace in a lovely environment within the four walls or within your beautifully set colony! Sad truth of the roads!

You for Me!

Growing with you is easy! Learning life's experiences is fun with you! You make me want to be a better person! Life is complicated but it turns out to be fun-filled and easy going with the right company; I am happy that you are my company in this journey! I find myself beautiful in my own skin and you make it even more easy for me to believe it every time I see that in your eyes!

With you, no words starting with 'self' matters to me anymore - self respect, self worthy, self control, self pity, self esteem, etc. They all are mere words to put a fence between us without giving a meaning to our life together! And can I indulge myself into thinking on them while I can indulge myself into filling that space enjoying the moments with you! Do I crave for a space for myself while I love you being in my space filling that emptiness! After all I have never felt my space lost when I am with you!

You inspire me and make me proud of you for being so volatile keeping yourself active and alive! Constantly jumping into things that comes to interest you at the moment of time, makes it lively for me to know that you have lot more to be explored yet!

The fights between make our love lot more sweeter because that's what makes us think that nothing is worth the cost of our relationship! It proves how different we are and how well we understand our differences! At one minute we could be fighting bringing down the house and the next minute we would be found in each other's arms not knowing what we fought for!

I love you for everything you are and for everything that you will change into in your own way, because Change is the only constant thing! And I know we can never grow tired of each other as we grow together welcoming lot of new changes!

You are a rare to find and great that I found you! Your spontaneity and high appeal for life makes you the best in my eyes giving the back seat to the loner and impatience in you! I know I can't be anywhere near you when the bad mood is on you but I am happy that its with me that you vent out those mood swings! Your policy on showing love in your own special way not loud and expressive, though took time for me to understand but when I did, I cherished every moment of it! Because your love is one of a kind - silly, funny and sweet! I like the way you keep things, be it love or fears, to yourself as a private person as that gives me the special privilege of knowing you better than anyone else! Your childishness has always refreshed me and I love it, how it sticks with you even as you grow all along! I tend to believe that it's wrong to say that nobody is worth your tears if they let them fall! Because I know you so very well, I might end up crying, messing with you and I always can get around with you in ease!
"I love you" and it means a lot to me!

You can make a difference!

Fri, Mar 20, 2011 11:00 PM

Your age does not matter. You can always make a difference.

You do not know that you have been making a difference with your pranks as an infant or a young boy or girl, and later, with your beauty and charm, sincerity and hard work. In old age, people think they cannot do a thing.

They think that they cannot work for long hours, cannot attend an office or cannot in any way be actively associated with society and its activities. But that is not the reality.

You can still do wonders. Sure, in old age, we cannot do much of physical work.

But our mind is still active, and our senses are fine. Sit down quietly and think of all the persons who are dear to you and to whom you would like to do a good turn.

Think with sincerity and intensity. With your good thoughts, you are all the time creating an atmosphere of good will and well-being.

All through life and history, people have thought good thoughts and felt passionately about them before defining a plan of action and realizing them on the ground. So, thinking comes first, and you too can do it.

The ideas in your mind, even if they are not implemented, do make a difference. You cannot stop an idea whose time has come.

It has a force and life of its own. It has the capacity to transform material reality outside you.

You think and the world will be better. Saints have shown how good thinking and feeling can heal and transform lives.

There is something like mental transmission of ideas. Meditation helps you transmit ideas to a person at any place or time.

Your thinking, your goodwill, your intense feeling for the good of others is the biggest force you carry. The older you are, the greater is the force at your command.

Therefore, do not despair, and go on with your good ideas and word of cheer. You would be contributing your lot in building a saner world.

About Me!

Definition not available!

I could be partying and shouting on top of my voice amidst a bunch of people or I could just be lost in my family dwelling into the finer happiness from the moments spent with them or I could be gone alone finding myself indulging in my own thoughts!

I could be wanting to travel all around the world for days together or I could be willing to spend all my day and night within four walls!

I could be running through the pages of random books picked from anywhere never want to keep it away before reading the end part or I could be writing down all my thoughts into random pages or files, throwing them everywhere and anywhere without any closure or I could be searching random words or sentences on google to go on and on never ending up with anything or finding more than what I wanted!

I could be actively running around on my toes doing everything and anything non-stop or I could be just holding the couch and browsing through the TV channels without watching anything or I could be sticking to the bed in deep sleep not wanting to wake up any soon!

I could be dressing up all I want to look nice or I could throw away the accessories and choose something that I am comfortable with!

I could be talking all I want with strangers even or I could just remain to myself even amidst familiar faces!

I could be passionate about something and take all the efforts to do it perfect to my satisfaction or I could just be ignoring everything that interests me around!

To say it simple - I can be happy where I am and for what I am at the moment, without being choosy about what I wear, what I eat, where I am or whom I am with! Being happy is my choice over anything else and I would never want to rub anybody the wrong way thus making myself not a fun to be around! I trust my instincts and go my way, be it illogical or silly! And I simply uncomplicated and very predictable knowing how to have fun!

Lube out your Stress!!!

Dawn to Dusk - Are you laughing or are you stressed? If stress has been your all-time favorite then it's time for you to take an advice "When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot, hang on and swing!" Now let go the stress, come on, get creative and stay Healthy and Operative.

Laughter, the best medicine! Anything can be said on Laughter by definition but the core thing that can't be denied is, "Laughter is good for any business".

When you get in for work, smile at your teammate and say 'Hi, Good Morning', you feel the familiarity. When the smile spreads to the eyes as a grin you feel the comfort. When that smile bursts out into laughter on cutting a joke, then you feel the difference… The rest of the day may have more fun and joy in store for you.

"Instead of working for the survival of the fittest, we should be working for the survival of the wittiest, then we can all die laughing."

What is this thing called Humor? Do you think that a sense of humor is just a bunch of jokes? No I don't think so. Its deeper than laughter, more satisfying than comedy and delivers more rewards than merely being entertaining, I believe. A sense of humor sees the fun in everyday experiences. Do you believe it that way?

But how to own a Sense of Humor? Senses of humor come in different sizes, shapes and textures that work for some and not for others. Some play a straight role, feeding lines to others, appearing funny. Some use phrases to bring smiles to other's faces. And some just play with their natural sense of humor. Check this sample, "Does Karaoke require a big talent, apart from some basic singing capability?" "Nopes. Karaoke requires the following: 1. A good Karaoke system 2. Good voice 3. If one or both the above are bad...then some Cotton for the audience..."

However it is, just lighten up on your own when things get tough, that's a sign of good health. Make others get lightened at their hard time. Isn't it something winning a wealth for you?

You Aren't Your Job. When it comes to work, you are not your job, take yourself lightly and the job seriously. Your perspective is the only thing you have any control of. When you can accumulate things that stress you, will it not be easier to accumulate fun things in the same place?

Draw the line before you go home from work, which breaks you from taking the stress. Do something that says you are not at work. Now go out and play, hug and kiss your family without bringing your aggravations home for dinner! You might even have fewer aggravations waiting for you the next day! But you'll be ready to face it the coming day.

Hey, this one works! Laughter reduces tension and stress. It releases endorphins, relaxes muscles, improves thinking and facilitates forward action. Exercising your sense of humor helps get the job done. Remember somebody saying, "Just a spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down?" Research has demonstrated that where people have fun, productivity and performance increase. Groups that have fun are more comfortable with each other and are better able to solve problems when they arise.

"Fun is not a reward, it's the lubricant that gets things done easily and effectively".

Being funny? Not my style! Even if you don't find yourself funny, you can make out in other ways. Find cartoons that make you smile and share them. Write down jokes, feel them and tell them to make others feel them. Look for the humor in tough situations. This isn't ridiculing others or making fun of them. It's just looking for something in it that lightens the load.

And most of all just try to engrave your mind with those funniest incidents. There should be no place for grievances or sorrows. No more will you spend hours together hearing those songs that bring out your sadness. Just try opening your ears to lively and fun-filled music; then you will feel the difference.

And here you are ready! For the next week or so, keep track of how often you're moved to laughter in your life - work, home, just out and about. Pay attention to how you feel afterwards. Note the times you may "laugh so hard you cry", how many times your sides might hurt because you laughed so hard. How many times you've made someone else laugh, created "a smile that burst" in them.

Look at your closest relationships and measure their health by the laughter present. Wherever you find less than you want, take responsibility and interject a sense of humor, fun and laughter.

The world truly does love to laugh! Add your two cents and enjoy!

 Simple Tips:
1. Self-care! Its not being selfish but being a role-model!
2. Take Extra Time! Saves you from stress!
3. No is not a bad word! Use it gracefully!
4. Improve your home environment! Not a complete makeover but small changes could sure bring in interesting moods!