Political Science

Rocket Science too can be understood easy but the political science is way far from my understanding! The subject is much deviated from the process and is more focused on the people who do the politics. Any TV show or movie grab the audience for its drama quotient and so does the drama in politics. It's purposefully made difficult to be understood by the people, leaving us to better ignore it than to fight with the knowledge of the same. The majority of the politics are reached to the common man through the media and the media itself is politicised and dramatised. The colorful gossips and rumor, value more than the facts behind the political event

Reservation!

Yes, it is needed but it has to be evolving and changes had to be applied to revise the criteria. How long is one going to be backward or prefer to be backward just because he/she is getting benefits out of it? For example, if one in a family is provided a reservation, then it should be ensured that the family that he/she belongs to is pulled up by the benefit given to him/her. Regular follow-up is required to analyze the reservation benefits utilized. Just because a policy is made it doesn't mean it has to be followed forever. Always there is an upgrade. Some things may be applicable into the society after a time period. It has to be understood. When there was a discrimination based on castes, their living style, their day-to-day provisions, the reservation was a 'must have' revolution. Agree that without this revolution this difference would have been high and would have been a regular fight for them. As times are changing and the betterment is being seen and enjoyed now, revision to some extent is required. Without a revision or change or upgrade any good notion will be unappreciable.

This appears to be pushing every other people to the backward and then come up! Should we be in the group where we prefer to be backward so that we get the benefits out of it? Financial, Lifestyle status - should be made the preference. People are being pulled up and are being developed! These status updates have to be registered and considered for further reservations. Generations have to be taken into account and an account tally has to be arrived at! What if they use the reservation not upto its mark and just ignore its original value? Why not keep a restriction to the count of reservation applied to a family? Once a backward family is given a chance to be pulled out of the backward treatment, what if they still don't see or use it, to its real or valued outcome?

And is this how we achieve equality be it case or life structure? And we have to bring back equality only by killing the knowledge in the capables, just as a punishment to their ancestors?! We always have a soft corner for the underprivileged and weaker ones just like Mothers! Focusing on the weaker ones will be good so that we can bring all the stronger ones down to become weak as well!!! So things are easy for the weaker ones again!

As a mother aren't we supposed to encourage them to come up on their own with little support? But if we give all the support that they would ask for forever, are we not pushing them to handicap? As a mother is that what we would want to do?

Connecting People

Social networking! It is just a boon for me! I have been a person who had been living amidst crowd and groups of people, almost all my childhood and teenage days! I had loved it then and even now they are the best memories of my life! But that wouldn't make me say that I still enjoy them now and I miss them badly! I think I have grown up with a change and away from that phase! Now loving my phase more with private moments! And yes I do enjoy those special moments in groups now and then but haven't been able to appreciate that as much as my private moments! My family is where I belong now and my comfort level what I get here isn't something that I would miss for anything else! I like to make the most out of these private living and I still haven't gotten enough of it! And that's why I run back home to my little nest, after a fast paced day's work! And yes I do enjoy the talking with others outside my comfort level and I enjoy it the most when I do it on my own terms! That's where the social networking comes handy to me! I can choose the conversation there and I can choose the person with whom I want to talk and I can choose to get in or stay away as and when something interests or disinterests me!

Gender - Keep just one!!!

We are in a land where few men are unable to be controlled and so women are expected to be in control! Precautions to be taken when women dress up, go to places, stay back late night at work, travels in the night! Asking women to do things as a workaround so that the root cause need not be solved! Because there is no resolution to it! Few men will be like that and will be let to stay like that, while women bring in all changes into the society! Ok then come on women we will do it! Let them accept the fact that they are incapable of bringing in changes in those few men and is dependent upon the women to kickstart the revolution by themselves!
Now where should we start? Ok let us focus on the listed items!

1. Dress change - We will decide upon a uniform for all the women! Let them shut down all the designer shops and bring in a common design which is very safe and secure for the men to control himself! No color change or pattern change! Every woman living on the land will get the same pattern and color! Any change might again bring a problem for men and let's not do that to them! Let us have some pity on them! Yes, girls wearing skirts and pretty outfits are very attracting! And they call for few men to conquer this beauty by any means! After all, all beauties of nature are meant to be spoilt! Healthy grown up trees mean they call for chopping them off, so better don't plant them at all in the first place! Its because we plant them and they grow to be tempting, that few chop them off! Prevention is better than sure so let us ban people from growing trees than ban people from chopping off the trees!

2. Women and Night - Nights are meant for robbers and rapists to roam around freely on the roads! So women should not intrude them in their business! So if women don't want to get raped, then it is your responsibility to stay away from the roads during the nights! Hold on! Some men don't mind about the day or night! What to do about that? Ok better solution is here! Women, don't go anywhere outside during the day time too! Ok done! Again there is a problem, few men are torture within the four walls too! They never care about age or relationship! Just animal flesh is what in them and their blood needs something to feed on anytime! So females, in any form should not go out in the nights!

Being a girl is their fault and let's not be it!!! Blame the creator?!!
What a poor thing the world is going to be giving up all the women to the museum!!! Is our men so angry that they are not being obeyed and want to throw around their weights everywhere especially on women! They have the male ego suffered and not secure enough to show it someway! And they have to prove that men are superior sex by proving it sexually??!!

Humanity!

Rape crisis (Reference to Delhi Rape news on Dec 18, 2012)!
Does this call for a doubt on how humanity is being dealt among the people??!! Be it Delhi or India or any other parts of the world! Are we still lacking in our civilization and failed to learn how to treat fellow human, be it woman or man? The reasons for such things can be thousands but do they justify any of such act? It's not just this incident, recently we have been seeing so many news about child sexual abuse, as well!

*A 5 year old been sexually abused by a cleaner in the school campus! And the kid is in mental trauma and undergoing pyschiatric treatment! And the accused is a father of two kids!*

Are we going insane? There is no fear for crimes! There is no sense of humanity leave alone morality! I'm just in emotional imbalance and not sure what to think and what not to think!

Prevention is better than cure! Should we follow that principle here to apply it on ourselves to prevent this from happening to us meaning to say Should we become the overprotective parents and keep our kids to ourselves to save them from such crisis??!! Should we deprive them of the freedom to explore the world that we enjoyed as our birthright??!!

Or Should we take it the other way to charge against the crimes by preventing them from happening to anyone across! To instill the fear at least something which works where morality don't work! Bring in capital punishment like Bobbitise, Chemical/Physical Castration, Life/Death sentence! Bring in strict Police Patrol to monitor the city!

My little bundle of joy!

I would not say I got you after lot of prayers and penance, but you sure are a precious gift to me, which wasn't easily available to me! I still remember those sleepless nights even before you were born, spent in thinking your well being and good health!

And I must say you sure are an angel, giving me less or no trouble during your birth! No gain without pain but I didn't see any pain in my gain! You are such a wonder in every single way!

All those troubled thoughts lost in the air on seeing those beautiful blinking eyes staring at me. Nothing can be sweeter than your cry! Everything about you was beautiful and pretty to me! I know this one person who is never sensitive or sentimental or too loud in expressing his feelings but he was all in emotions in his own way! I adore you for bringing this side of him out in the light for me!

Your presence made everything complete in my life which I thought was always complete! You opened a new meaning to life in your own way by just being present in it with us!

As you grew up, I found you very reasonable in your demands and well behaved in every way! I was proud and am proud and will always proud of you in whatever you do or become or not become!

You have given a new perspective to life! I have never been tired or bored of life's simple things! But in your presence every simpler thing gave a new meaning to my life!

I was never worried about death! My motto of life had been to live the day without regrets for tomorrow! When you became a part of my life, I couldn't have the freedom of let go off things just like that! You are my responsibility and I want to be accounted for every moment of your life that shapes you up! Every day I have something to say to you and I want you to be prepared for every phase of your life!!! I sure would want you to make your own mistakes but want to be there to offer my shoulder when you are tired of them! I can never be ready to go away till I know that you are ready to take off on your own!

Travel & Me!

It is an experience by itself! I can never repeat the same experience again even if I travel to the same place with the same people or just on my own! Either I will be a new me or with some changes or the place will be different from perspectives! I can't expect something out of the travel instead I would learn to experience everything as it comes to me! Keeping myself open to anything makes the travel lot more interesting. For example instead of planning a tight schedule, leaving it to go with the flow will bring lot more interesting things to my travel I can never be tired of learning anything new- be it the transport or the food or the people or the nature! The same place travelled twice, gives a whole different learning. And I prefer to be be prepared for anything in the travel - be it a flat tyre or a tiresome walk or a delayed schedule or a deviation enroute! Anything that appears to be bad on the outside will make the trip lot more interesting than I have ever thought it would be. I just pack one thing with me always, during the travel - An open mind! That will come handy for anything needed in the tour that is to be unfolded in front of me! The learning or the experience - It can be anything - The people, the nature or the Me! I have to just be there to witness it and focus on it

Water & Me!

What a lovely scene that I see now! Water, water and only water around me! I'm sitting inside the house boat which is moving slowly and steadily on a big body of water - the lake in Kollam! While hubby dear and baby angel are taking a quick nap, I'm seeing myself sitting relaxed watching things around me! There's something with this water! It always make me calm and thoughtful! It brings in peace into my mind and communicates nothing but everything that one needs when he/she is alone! I'm not lonely but alone on my own just wondering what a beautiful life I have! And everything that I have around me makes it more beautiful! Now the water lake and the boat I'm in! Water in its any form is lovely and close to my heart! Be it lakes, the river, the ocean, the waterfalls and the rains! They are just beautiful in their own way just like the way my life is right now!

Right now what I see absolutely stunning in front of me! Wide open with sky as the limit and thick blue water only to be filled in with more water by a drizzle, surrounded by greenery here and there! What a lovely work by nature! One is left with option of being an admirer and nothing else! The power of nature is so wonderful that no words could explain them so very well! Then what am I trying to do here! No, not explaining the nature but trying to explain my experience with mother nature!

What a lovely life I live and a lovely world that I live in! Thank you God, the mother of nature, for everything that you have given me! My family and my this peaceful life amidst the beautiful nature! What else can one ask for! I am only mesmerized!